I read some sweet romance. Historical and contemporary. I like them. They're wholesome and it's fun reading about how the other half fantasy fuck. I was reading The Cowboy's E-Mail Order Bride by Cora Seton -a very enjoyable romance- when I remembered quite a few women don't doggy.
Our hero of this book, Ethan asks our heroine Autumn, "Is this all right?" after he turns her on her tummy in preparation for some loving. I honestly had a 'whoa, is he going to stick it in her butt?' moment.
You know if it was an erotic novel, he'd only be asking in reference to breaching old rosy.
Then I realized, oh yeah, not all women are comfortable with not having face to face sex. It's considered animalistic. Base. Which is a shame, because 'doggy style' really is my favorite position.
You know if it was an erotic novel, he'd only be asking in reference to breaching old rosy.
Then I realized, oh yeah, not all women are comfortable with not having face to face sex. It's considered animalistic. Base. Which is a shame, because 'doggy style' really is my favorite position.
This made me wonder about some of the reasons women could be opting out of the awesomeness that is doggy style. I think one of the largest reasons is the imagery the word 'doggy' creates.
No woman wants to feel like a dog -outside of puppy play, that is.
The word really does promote a sense of being used. The word bitch is often associated with dog in reference to a woman. It doesn't scream positive affirmations that's for sure.
No woman wants to feel like a dog -outside of puppy play, that is.
The word really does promote a sense of being used. The word bitch is often associated with dog in reference to a woman. It doesn't scream positive affirmations that's for sure.
which is just sad
We're animals too, it makes sense
In my sadness for these misguided women missing out, I thought of some names that could change the stigma behind doggy style.
Orgasm Style
aka; G-Spot Stroking Position
Reverse Missionary
If there can be a Reverse Cowgirl, there can be a Reverse Missionary
Face Down Ass Up
Of course
HotSpot Hitter
Why wouldn't you want that?
Spooning Style
It's just one step further than cuddling
Lion Style
Cause, you know, that's fierce
I believe sex was meant to be had in many positions. Why would it feel so good if we weren't supposed to do it?
I just had sex in three different positions last night. And none of them were face to face to my husband. Although, I know for a fact he was there.
He was a pivotal component to the sex.
We see each other all the time. Why do we need to soul gaze while buffing? And really, do you know how hard it is to get your ass slapped and your hair pulled in the missionary position?
Wait... Not all women like ass slapping and hair pulling either? Well, what the fuck is wrong with people?!? It's like they don't even want to enjoy sex.
