tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4163401700642381987.post2389778891342597723..comments2024-01-20T05:41:29.966-08:00Comments on Aubrey Cara: That's Leibster, Not LobsterAubrey Carahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10333014898721899603noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4163401700642381987.post-22304228393646022292014-05-15T07:08:47.949-07:002014-05-15T07:08:47.949-07:00I'm much improved. I still have days to weeks ...I'm much improved. I still have days to weeks I get knocked down and I have to go in and make sure my EBV count isn't active and high. Thankfully I'm blessed with a warped sense of humor. It kept me upbeat and finding the silver lining. <br /><br />I say I got sick so that I could learn to let go and my son could learn how to be independant. Me before illness had a house that was company ready at all times, didn't let my son do anything for himself, sweated all the small stuff. I was OCD and I tend to be a control freak when it comes to my house and my kid. One of the reason I kept getting worse and it went on so long was my inability to stop. I kept pushing myself until I passed out and had to go to the emergency room with a swollen spleen. Even after that, it was really hard to let go and relax. It was the best and worst thing that ever happened to me. With that being said, getting Meniere's Disease on top over everything else just added insult to injury. That's bullshit. And I miss dark chocolate more than cigarettes. ;) <br /><br />Now, the hour after eating thing is kind of like having swimmers vagina. Or swimmers clit, maybe? LOL, My stomach gets upset if I get aroused while I'm digesting. So it feels like a lot of mixed messages going on. The conflicting body responses make me sick. Arousal, indigestion, arousal, nausea, arousal, I think I may be flagellant, arousal, stomach cramps. I can never reach orgasm. My husband is rather frisky after he eats, but he has learned he will lose a limb if he messes with me to soon after a large meal. Aubrey Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10333014898721899603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4163401700642381987.post-49854538068426952592014-05-15T05:56:55.403-07:002014-05-15T05:56:55.403-07:00Oh wow, I had no idea how sick you had been and th...Oh wow, I had no idea how sick you had been and the after (shit, affect/effect) effects of it. My friend and I were talking about God and she was saying God must think she's a super hero if it's true that he only gives you what you can handle. I don't know but it sounds like a whole lot to go through for you and I'm glad you are better now (??) and am always wowed by your incredible sense of humor.<br /><br />OK, so effect and affect I just sort of learned but I always have to think about it. It's the opposite of what I think is right naturally. A is the verb and E is the noun form. <br /><br />I really need to know about waiting an hour after eating before orgasming though. ??Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07220029273749305283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4163401700642381987.post-82117053667083678962014-05-15T05:48:35.290-07:002014-05-15T05:48:35.290-07:00Thanks for the nom!! You had some great questions....Thanks for the nom!! You had some great questions. I really enjoyed putting the post together!Aubrey Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10333014898721899603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4163401700642381987.post-29416156543257796572014-05-15T05:40:41.893-07:002014-05-15T05:40:41.893-07:00LOL, We'll see if this diddy has any effect on...LOL, We'll see if this diddy has any effect on me! I have google spell check 'on' now. So, I get a green/blue squiggly if I use the wrong one. Which I normally do. Especially when I think I'm using the right one. Aubrey Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10333014898721899603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4163401700642381987.post-45258810361815475112014-05-15T05:12:52.027-07:002014-05-15T05:12:52.027-07:00I love all of your answers. You always make me lau...I love all of your answers. You always make me laugh. You're memory about telling your husband you were pregnant just made me spit my coffee.<br />Also, I am really glad you don't wrestle homeless men covered in piss for cigarettes, I applaud your self control. And congrats on coming up on the two year mark!<br />I am so glad you are blogging. I always enjoy your blog and I love when you throw in some personal stuff to. Thanks for letting me nominate you :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09958878959625455361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4163401700642381987.post-1593285948548597552014-05-14T11:52:52.824-07:002014-05-14T11:52:52.824-07:00Re #1, affect vs. effect drove me up the wall too,...Re #1, affect vs. effect drove me up the wall too, until I learned the ditty "The arrow affected the aardvark. It had an eye-popping effect."Bruce Officerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15884502722552782618noreply@blogger.com